There is a double standard between men and women, particularly when it comes to grooming standards. They have invented everything under the sun to get rid of “unwanted facial or body hair” on women including shaving, waxing, electrolysis, “Smooth Away,” creams, ointments, lasering just to name a few.
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There is such a negative connotation when it comes to in-laws. Although I’m not married, I can understand the feeling of dread when thinking about your partner or spouse’s parents. I consider myself lucky with my boyfriend’s parents. They are supportive, helpful with just a small dose of overbearing, nothing I can’t handle, but I may be the exception. Most cringe at the thought of meeting or “getting to know” your partner’s parents, for good reason. What do you do when your in-laws involve themselves in your relationship?
If you are a Seinfeld fanatic, like me, then you remember the episode where George begins to incorporate his three loves: T.V., food and sex. He eventually pushes the limits by bringing a sub into bed, but I think he had the right idea, minus the T.V. Incorporating food with the deed can make for an adventurous and thrilling bout of sex. I’ve considered the most common things in your fridge to spice or sweeten-up your sex life depending on your mood.
Let’s face it, when your partner physically changes throughout the course of your relationship, it can be positive or negative. Here, I’d like to focus on negative changes, the most familiar of which being weight gain.
If you had to lose a sense, which could you live without? I don’t have an answer, but I know I couldn’t live without touch. In love, sex, and relationships, touch conveys many things: a sense of security, passion, and sometimes commitment. Without touch, there would be no sex, and in my opinion, life without sex is a tragedy.
It’s a huge turn-on when, in the heat of passion, the connections are seamless. It’s like driving a manual car: in the hands of a competent driver, the ride is as seamless as in an automatic. You start off in first gear, getting the engine warm, then really get the wheels turning in second. Next you switch to third and things are really starting to heat-up. In fourth she really shows what she’s worth, and if you’re lucky, you can get into fifth. From there it’s a smooth drive. Some men can switch gears in the bedroom like professionals; others fumble through the steps like a kid forced to drive a stick shift for the first time in driver’s ed, stalling several times and having to start over.
Women either love receiving oral sex or hate it; there’s no in-between. I don’t understand how you can hate something that can be so pleasurable, and sometimes, quite frankly, that will give you the best orgasm you have ever had. Self-conscious thoughts should be thrown out the window ladies because the smell, taste, or sight won’t be enough to make him stop if he knows you are getting pleasure from him. Unless of course you really need to take care of the aforementioned items discussed in my post, 5 turn-offs for him.
After some serious thought and input from a few close male friends, I formed this list of five common turn-offs for men. Disclaimer: this is not the TOP five, but merely five things women do or possess that are complete and utter turn-offs. I also suggest that female readers ask your well-kept and clean male friends their opinion on if you can check yourself off this list.
Four different qualities can describe a woman: hot, beautiful, sexy, and sensual. Hot can be easily achieved with the right clothes, hairstyle, and make-up. Beautiful is, take your breath away, crack a smile smitten. Sexy is an attitude that can be displayed through body language and accentuated with clothing. Sensual is more of an action that stems from sexy, her sexual undertones and mannerisms all relate back to a sexy female, and of course, sex.
Sex doesn’t always have to be about sex. Having a partner that is sensual can make your mood that much better. However, you don’t always have to have sex to be sensual. A few simple acts, sans penetration, can get your blood flowing and lift your libido. Here are a few sensual scenarios that capture sensuality without sex.
What would you say if I told you that sex–passionate, raw, primal sex–is a legitimate way of exercising and keeping off the pounds?
