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Do you have boring sex?

I remember when I first really learned about sex.  Sex was thought of something off-limits, but could produce an extreme amount of pleasure; clearly I became addicted to learning and talking about it. Things have not changed very much, except for the fact that I now have sex and am addicted.

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5 things to NOT do in the beginning of a relationship

Being single can be tough for some. Seeing your friends in relationships, or getting married, experiencing love and being wanted by someone for more than one night can take a toll on someone’s ego. Before my current relationship I was single for a long time. I tend to blame that period of my busy schedule and caught up in “life.” The other day I read some of my old journals and realized how miserable I was.

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4 areas he won’t admit he enjoys during sex


Over my short time here on Earth I have come to realize that it doesn’t take much to please a man during sex. Each man is different and unique in their own way and I intend to treat them as such. There are two main paths that lead to a man’s destination: blowjobs or sex. However, with each man there are different shortcuts and scenic routes you could take; you just have to know how to find them.

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Does he enjoy giving oral sex?

To eat or not to eat, that is the question. Whether tis nobler to give oral sex first or stand in line… well you know the rest. We face many crossroads in relationships, especially in the realm of sex: whether we want to initiate, give, take, make love or just fuck. Let’s focus specifically on oral sex for women: The formal term, cunnilingus, or better know as: eating out, licking pussy, or carpet munching is one of my favorite activities, but a lot of my girlfriends shudder at the thought. What about the men? Do men enjoy giving?

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Does the number of sex partners matter?

We like to think that numbers do not matter. Women don’t judge their weight by the number of pounds but by how their clothes feel. Men are concerned with the number of inches hanging between their legs and the number of dollars in their bank account.

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Balancing sex and your life

It was recently brought to my attention that we have a problem on our hands: We don’t have time for sex. Not having enough hours in the day for sex is a problem. Having no energy for sex is a major problem. Postponing sex for days, weeks and sometimes months because of your schedule is unacceptable.

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Sleeping with your boss: it is just business

Female college students are graduating every year and the current status of our economic system makes it difficult for them, let alone anyone, to find a job. After tweaking your resume, buying a new skirt suit and practicing your interview questions out loud, you expect to find a job or advance in your current position, right? Wrong. Not only are companies not hiring, but they are not promoting people as easily either. Many people, females in particular, have found great use of their looks and sex appeal for getting things in life. Why not use those same looks and sex appeal at work? Many women do.

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Study shows definitions differ on “have sex”


The longstanding definition of “have sex” has recently been challenged. To have sex, the standard definition would be the penis in vagina action. However, the Kinsey Institute published a study that showed a huge variance in men and women’s definition of “have sex.”

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Race and sexual attraction is just black and white


It has followed me around throughout my life and I have never been able to get rid of it. It makes it hard for me to buy pants that fit and won’t disappear no matter how many squats I do at the gym. I am talking about my ass. It is larger than most white, females’ and people have noticed, specifically, men outside my race. Recently, this has made me curious so I decided to talk with a group of African American girlfriends about my dilemma. Do certain races prefer a certain body type? more…

Threesomes for beginners


She walks up to me, kisses me softly on the lips. I slowly remove my shirt to reveal Victoria’s Secret underneath. I reach to the button on her tight jeans and push them to the ground. Soon we are both on the bed naked and heavily making out as she breaks our embrace that makes the sound of my heartbeat reverberate in the room. She turns to him and coaxes him to join. A smile spread across his face as he walked toward the bed knowing exactly the amount of pleasure he was about to experience. Every man’s fantasy, right? A threesome has become more than an illusion for men, women are starting to get in on the action, literally.

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