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Body hair on men: What women think

There is a double standard between men and women, particularly when it comes to grooming standards. They have invented everything under the sun to get rid of “unwanted facial or body hair” on women including shaving, waxing, electrolysis, “Smooth Away,creams, ointments, lasering just to name a few.

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5 things to NOT do in the beginning of a relationship

Being single can be tough for some. Seeing your friends in relationships, or getting married, experiencing love and being wanted by someone for more than one night can take a toll on someone’s ego. Before my current relationship I was single for a long time. I tend to blame that period of my busy schedule and caught up in “life.” The other day I read some of my old journals and realized how miserable I was.

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How to avoid the friend zone

There are three categories of men: the nice guys, the assholes and the mysterious. Women are usually attracted to the assholes, also known as douchebags; desire the mysterious; and always say they want a “nice guy.” If women claim to want a nice guy, then why can’t nice guys get dates?

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Porn in your relationship


Pornography has a longstanding tradition for men. The first sign of porn was found in the late 1800s and was in the form of rock statues. Those who found the kinky stones were shocked and embarrassed. Not much has changed.  Over time porn has existed in the form of magazines, books, drawings and even paintings. In this new millennium the most common forms of porn are videos and my favorite, the internet. The double standard that exists between the sexes concerning masturbating makes most believe that men consume the most porn. While this could be true, females are becoming turned on the by the idea and are not afraid to say it: “I love watching porn.”

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Different positions to lick your lady

Oral Sex for herWomen either love receiving oral sex or hate it; there’s no in-between. I don’t understand how you can hate something that can be so pleasurable, and sometimes, quite frankly, that will  give you the best orgasm you have ever had. Self-conscious thoughts should be thrown out the window ladies because the smell, taste, or sight won’t be enough to make him stop if he knows you are getting pleasure from him. Unless of course you really need to take care of the aforementioned items discussed in my post, 5 turn-offs for him.

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5 turn-offs for men

groomingAfter some serious thought and input from a few close male friends, I formed this list of five common turn-offs for men. Disclaimer: this is not the TOP five, but merely five things women do or possess that are complete and utter turn-offs. I also suggest that female readers ask your well-kept and clean male friends their opinion on if you can check yourself off this list.

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Can men and women just be friends?

Just friendsAt my former job I met a man I’ll call Scott. Scott came in multiple times to specifically seek my advice and stayed roughly an hour each visit. We talked about each others’ lives, specifically love and sex; I like to think these subjects are my forte and I talk about them with most everyone. The majority of the the conversations were about his ex and recent dates he went on. Once, when it was time for Scott to leave, I was on my way out for lunch. As we walked out together I said, “You know I don’t have that many good guy friends that I can chat with around here. We should be friends.”

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